They say you shouldnt assume anything in life. And theyre mostly right. Except when it comes women and dating. In a few moments, Ill reveal a secret of guys who are naturally good with women. I'll then recommend that you absolutely ASSUME it when interacting with a woman that you desire. By doing so, you will be well on your way to overcoming your fear of rejection. Lets get started. Lets talk about the FEAR OF REJECTION. The very THOUGHT of being rejected by a woman is enough to make most men feel nauseous. Can you picture it now? She looks and you and says, "Get away from me you creep!" Imagine yourself being rejected like that... Can you feel the tension building in the pit of your stomach? The awkwardness of the situation? The feelings of humiliation? The reality is that when its TIME TO ACT and make a move, MOST guys feel a similar sensation to what Ive just described. FEAR takes over and they just freeze up. FEAR OF REJECTION is why millions of men around the world get boozed up every weekend and hope to get lucky. Unable to simply ignore the fear, they dull it with alcohol and hope for the best. But you are different; you are now working on overcoming your fear of rejection. Give yourself a pat on the back; you are an intelligent, modern man. Its interesting. I've known men who have done big business deals, battled opponents in the boxing ring, sky-dived out of planes...but the very same men FREEZE UP when it comes to approaching women. They become paralyzed and just cant bring themselves to do it. This sort of behaviour gives credit to my favourite saying, "Its one thing to understand something and another to be able to do it." Meaning that most guys will say, "Yeah, all youve gotta do is go up and start a conversation. She wont bite" But how many guys do you know that have the confidence to do so, when they see a woman that they desire? Slim to none, I bet. Youll often hear excuses like: * Nah, Im not in the mood. * She probably has a boyfriend. * I dont have anything to talk to her about. * Shell probably slap me or something. * Etc. Well, heres the good news: If you follow my advice, you will learn how to naturally attract women WITHOUT the need to get all boozed up. Youll also learn how to get rid of your fancy excuses and eliminate your fear of rejection. And heres some even better news: Unless youre acting like a jackass and walking up being a total sleaze; women wont slap you, ridicule you or intentionally try to hurt you. If theyre not interested youll often get a simple, "Sorry, I have boyfriend" or something else to show shes not interested. So it's important to recognise the difference between 'BEING REJECTED' and the 'FEAR OF REJECTION'. One is real and one is imaginary. And BEING REJECTED is not a big deal anyway. Really, it isn't. My friends and I have approached thousands of women and the worst weve ever got is a, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend", "Why are you talking to us?" or the women ignoring any attempts to converse. Ooooh, scary! Seriously - its like water of a ducks back. No hard feelings. No tears. Let's take a couple of steps back for a moment... I know that many of you will be reading this thinking "Yeah, but HOW do I get over my fear of being rejected and just approach a woman when I see her? I understand what you're saying, but when it's time to act - I simply chicken out." And seeing that I'm such a nice guy, I'm going to give you the answer. Are you ready? Are you sure? Okay, the solution is to: Get over your IMAGINARY fear of being rejected. Thats it. Yes, your fear is imaginary and you need to get over it. You are CREATING it by assuming the outcome will be bad, even though you have no idea how it will go. Remember when I said ...I will reveal something and recommend that you absolutely ASSUME it when interacting with a woman you desire ? Good. Here is it: ASSUME that the right amounts of rapport and attraction are ALREADY present for you to be totally comfortable around her. ASSUME that its ok to talk like you are old friends, or even new lovers. ASSUME it with women from now on and your life change. Suddenly women will feel much more COMFORTABLE around you and vice versa. All the best! Dan |